When is a Christian a Hypocrite?

Greater love has no one than this,that he lay down his life for his friend.

John 15:13

Has anyone accused you of being a hypocrite because you didn't show them Christian love? No every accusation like this is justified; sometimes the accused is just being selfish, demanding or unrealistic. 

We aren't hypocrites just because we don't meet every demand. Would we really be helping them if we met their every demand, no matter how selfish? 

Sometimes love says NO, because,that is what is best for the other person. Let us not love with words or tongue,but with actions and truth(1jn3:18). This is the kind of love God showed us when He sent Jesus into the world to die for our sins. 

May we be the example we are called to be and have wisdom in every situation. Have a blessed day!